Tuesday, April 19, 2005

acting your age, not your shoe size

I am 26. I wear size 6.5 - 7 shoe.

I can't decide if it is a positive thing or a negative thing that people often guess that I am younger than I actually am. I will confess, in addition to my height disadvantage, I do tend to be on the lower end of the 26 spectrum. While I am not bothered by the following, they do perhaps set me apart from most other 26-yr-olds of this world:

I don't own my own home, nor work at a 'professional' job.

I don't even own my own car (it's a car in my name, but technically it's provided by work).

I am single, never been married, and I have no children.


My dress is a wide range of things, from casual-fun to prepped-out office girl.

I am practical. I like to be comfortable, what can I say?

When it comes to my actions... I do tend to be fun-loving, silly, sarcastic, and less-embarrassed about the little things that tend to set others in a tizzy-fit. Of course I realize that there is a time and a place for most types of behavior. And lately I can definitely sense the difference in age of the college students under my care and myself. The life experience just hasn't reached that point yet. So why do they often guess me as their contemporary? Perhaps the difference is more inward and less apparent in it's outward manifestation. I am comforted that some with a more trained eye for maturity can sense that though I look young, I am indeed passed the point of my bachelor-degree days of university. Of course, I am not agruing by any means to portray that I am a boring oldie. As my contemporaries age they will just have to eat their hearts out... because I've got young blood.

2 Comments:

Blogger Mary Ann said...

Let's here it for the young bloods!! I am thrilled that you are one! I worry that I am not a young blood! I love fun and being entertained but part of me wants to get down to business with a serious manner! It is hard for me to be young. I know the problem is that I am NOT young (but I want to be-and I feel like I am!). I have much to learn from you Young Blood.

Fri Apr 22, 02:39:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Tye said...

Well.....there is nothing wrong with the points you state....I mean I'm 22 and I feel as if I'm being left behind....I'm just realizing what I want to do with my life.....I think people get so caught up in wanting the perfect job, wife/husband, car, and whatever.....that they lose sight of the life they are forgetting to live..........I think a better description for you would be someone who is living their life on their own timetable......and that is something that I'm just starting to let myself believe......I'm learning about patience as of now........I always wanted things instantly.....and I now realize that is not how life works......so long live not conforming to the ways of your peers.......besides burnout will hit you a lot later......anyway....Hope things are well…..always enjoy reading your blogs….

Sat Apr 23, 07:09:00 AM PDT  

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